People often need a sympathetic ear and some comfort after a divorce
- and it is more difficult when the relationship's breakdown is played
out in the lights of the media.
For Madonna, newly single after
her 'quickie divorce' split from Guy Ritchie on Friday, it was
spiritual comfort she was after, as the slightly-worn looking singer
headed to the Kabbalah Centre in New York.
And joining her were children David Banda, Lourdes Ciccone Leon and Rocco Ritchie.

Madonna carries David Banda into the Kabbalah Center just days after reaching a divorce settlement with Guy Richie

Children Lourdes and Rocco at the Kabbalah Centre in New York
The
singer has already let her feelings about the divorce known with a
two-handed gesture on stage the night before the divorce - which took
place in a 50 second hearing in a family court in London to which
neither partner attended.

Message from the missus: Madonna in concert in the U.S. as her 'quickie divorce' was approved
Madonna
blamed her 'middle aged, emotional retard' of a husband for the
breakdown of their relationship, claiming his unreasonable behaviour as
the reason for their divorce.
Her married days over, she looked defiantly happy as she gestured to the crowd on Thursday night in concert in Philadelphia.
Ritchie, meanwhile, took the couple's two children, Rocco, eight, and David, two, out for dinner back home in Britain.

Shared care: Guy took sons David and Rocco out to dinner as the details of his quickie divorce were made public
The
decree nisi was one of 17 granted by District Judge Reid at the
Principal Registry of the Family Division in High Holborn yesterday.
It was given on the grounds that the marriage had irretrievably broken down because of Ritchie's 'unreasonable behaviour'.
The
court papers reveal Madonna is not asking her husband to pay her legal
costs and that the couple have not lived together since an amended
divorce petition was filed.
Rubberstamped: The court papers outlining the preliminary decree for divorce
The
singer answers 'yes' when asked if Ritchie's behaviour was continuing.
The document also rules out adultery as a reason behind the split.
Madonna, 50, signed the papers with a scrawl from an address at Sunset Boulevard in Beverly Hills on November 4.
The singer has told friends her husband would continually put her down and compare her to his friends' wives.
She
blamed him for causing 'huge ructions' in the family and failing to
help her adopt a second child from Malawi. The couple had adopted David
Banda there in October 2006.

Dad on duty: Guy cuddled up to a Rocco as they headed home

Boys night out: The trio dined at Liverpool's La Vina restaurant
She
also told friends that her American baseball player friend, Alex
Rodriguez, is 'everything Guy was when they first got together, but
isn't any more'.
A close friend of the couple told the Mail:
'Madonna says she watched Guy turn from a dynamic, witty, suave and
funny man when they first met, to a middle-aged emotional retard.
'Madonna says that now the divorce is over she hopes she can have a civil rapport with Guy for the sake of the children.'
The
source told the Mail: 'When Guy would come back from the pub and went
out drinking, he'd go on about how amazing his friends' wives were.
There would be continual digs and put downs aimed at Madonna, nothing
directly offensive, but bitchy comments.
'If she brought it up
he'd tell her to stop trying to start an argument. He systematically
alienated her from those close to her.'

Press gather outside the court in London
where Madonna and Guy Ritchie were granted their 'quickie' divorce.
Neither was present at the hearing
On Friday the Mail
revealed that Ritchie, 40, will walk away with just £2million of his
wife's £300million fortune and have equal access to their children.
Along with Rocco and David, Madonna also has a 12-year-old daughter, Lourdes from a previous relationship.
She
had wanted all the children to live with her in New York but Ritchie
was keen to ensure that his sons stay in England. Lourdes will remain
with her mother.
It is not yet clear how the couple will split their £40million property portfolio, staff and fleet of vehicles.
There
were suggestions that Ritchie has 'done a Billie Piper' - a reference
to the apparently amicable split between the Doctor Who star and Chris
Evans. Miss Piper, who has since remarried, apparently did not ask for
a penny from the wealthy DJ.
Last month it was revealed that Ritchie had rejected a £20million divorce settlement offered by the singer.
She had upped her initial offer by £5million in exchange for dictating access rights to their three children.
At
the time a source revealed: 'Madonna has said to Guy that if she ups
the money, then would he agree to her setting out the access for the
children until they turn 18.'
A decree nisi is only the
first stage of the divorce. However, unless there are any objections,
the couple can apply for a decree absolute after six weeks and one day.
It is generally within this time period that any financial arrangements are finalised.
The
couple, who married at Skibo Castle in the Highlands of Scotland,
announced that they were splitting on October 15 this year after
several months of speculation.
Representatives for both stars declined to comment.
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